Biphobia, just like homophobia, transphobia, intersexphobia, xenophobia and all the other phobias, has many different consequences and all horrible. One of them is that the people that become objects for these phobias acquire a tendency to describe and identify themselves in a normative way and, directly or indirectly, to be part of the creation of negative prejudices against some non-normative behaviours. In order to defend themselves from the attacks, they end up becoming themselves the oppressors and attackers of other people that apparently live (even) less acceptably.
Every time I meet bisexual people or read texts written by bisexuals about bisexuality, I feel the same horror and the same tiredness. The same thing always pops up: we are not confused, we are not undecided, we are not heteros playing, we are not homos in the closet, we are not promiscuous, we are not sex addicts, we are not sexually interested in everyone, we don't need to have several relationships at the same time, we are not disease carriers, we are not unable to have stable relationships or love only one person or have deep feelings or create a family... In one sentence: we are normal. The only thing that makes us different is that we are bisexual. And bisexuality, therefore, is a valid identity.
For all those bisexuals using that much energy in creating information and reminding us all that we bisexuals are normal, people like me are their nightmare. And that is exactly why people like me feel the rejection not only from the heterosexist society and the cishomonormative scene, but also the rejection from a great number of bisexuals that see in us bad exponents and even worse examples of what it means to be bisexual. They see in us those people they know also exist but they want to hide away because we tarnish the beautiful facade of normality and represent everything that apparently is OK to be against. Because of course, to be unfaithful, to be promiscuous, to feel confusion, to have a disease, to be unstable, to be hypersexual... all this is something you can and you have to have a phobia against.

I am not normal and even less am I going to be. If that covers the facade of normality that many bisexuals try to show with filth, even better. Because the thing we should be fighting for is that we ALL have the same right to be the way we are, to be diverse, as we want and exactly all those things that society rejects.